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Post by Deleted on Jun 22, 2017 19:53:28 GMT
Haha ignore the last comment. I missed that bit. it's too long to read anyway I did read.through it but failed to spot that bit. I'll go along with that to blame though.
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Post by Bestie on Jun 22, 2017 20:21:27 GMT
So. It's crazy to fly to Las Vegas to meet a girl you met for two days, yes? Bear in mind: She is at least a 9.5 and badly wants the perfect 10 status (which as I often say, doesn't exist. WTM aside of course). Wouldn't say it's crazy if you are the one flying. If anything goes wrong, you had an adventure and can have some fun around town. Sometimes you just have to give it a try, make an effort, let passion consumes you whilst it is still there (and when it's mutual), especially if you see her as a potential marriage mate. Wouldn't say it's crazy if you are the one flying. If anything goes wrong, you had an adventure and can have some fun around town. Sometimes you just have to give it a try, make an effort, let passion consumes you whilst it is still there (and when it's mutual), especially if you see her as a potential marriage mate. What she said. Hopefully it won't go wrong though. If it was somewhere dodgy then you could argue it. But seeing as its Vegas then why not. Go for it pal. So. It's crazy to fly to Las Vegas to meet a girl you met for two days, yes? Bear in mind: She is at least a 9.5 and badly wants the perfect 10 status (which as I often say, doesn't exist. WTM aside of course). It's crazy, but fuck it man. Go chase the dream. I love you guys. I'm genuinely looking up flights now.
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Post by WhatsTheMata on Jun 22, 2017 20:23:40 GMT
Wouldn't say it's crazy if you are the one flying. If anything goes wrong, you had an adventure and can have some fun around town. Sometimes you just have to give it a try, make an effort, let passion consumes you whilst it is still there (and when it's mutual), especially if you see her as a potential marriage mate. What she said. Hopefully it won't go wrong though. If it was somewhere dodgy then you could argue it. But seeing as its Vegas then why not. Go for it pal. It's crazy, but fuck it man. Go chase the dream. I love you guys. I'm genuinely looking up flights now. Update us!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 22, 2017 20:32:57 GMT
cant remember a really bad date. and as stupid as it sounds i never had problems attracting girls. sometimes there were problems with too many attracted at the same time. sounds really arrogant but thats how it is. i wouldnt say i'm incredibly good looking because nahh but there must be something that attracts them to me and i have no fucking clue what it is I also totally have that problem. Yep, totally. /s
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Post by Deleted on Jun 22, 2017 20:38:59 GMT
So. It's crazy to fly to Las Vegas to meet a girl you met for two days, yes? Bear in mind: She is at least a 9.5 and badly wants the perfect 10 status (which as I often say, doesn't exist. WTM aside of course). If it doesn't work out there's a 9.5 in every casino in Vegas
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Post by dazjoe on Jun 22, 2017 22:25:42 GMT
Couldn't attract anything when I was younger, took until I was about 19/20 before a got my 1st serious girlfriend. Had pretty serious confidence and image issues when I was a teen (a teenager with issues, say what?!)
As I've gotten older I just got so much more comfortable and at ease with myself, and I think that really shines through. It's oft touted that women love confidence, and I do think that plays a strong role in attracting someone. I don't exactly strut around like I'm hot stuff (I'm married now anyway), I'm just confident in myself now, and for whatever reason women have been comfortable around me once I got to that point(not necessarily in a sexual sense, just happy to be around me). Since I was about 26/27 I've had a lot more female friends than male. All the chavs in my old local back home were convinced I was gay because I'd be sat in the bar most weekends with 4 or 5 women. Nothing "happening" with any of them, just hanging out as mates.
Even today, most Friday's after work I find myself out with a few women and sometimes no men apart from me. My best mate is a woman.
For Bestie, why not fly over if you can afford it. I wouldn't exactly skint myself to do it, or risk my job for it; but if you have the leave from work and the funds to do it then what's the fuss? If it works out, brilliant. If it doesn't, then you get a holiday in Vegas anyway. Win win.
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Post by Bestie on Jun 22, 2017 23:25:52 GMT
Point one - I am not a 10/10 either by any stretch, but since my early 20's I have been entirely comfortable in 'myself' and women definitely pick up on that as a good thing.
Point two - Vegas is fuckin' expensive to get to. New York could be more doable. We'll see.
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Post by king nothing on Jun 23, 2017 4:47:55 GMT
Point one - I am not a 10/10 either by any stretch, but since my early 20's I have been entirely comfortable in 'myself' and women definitely pick up on that as a good thing. Point two - Vegas is fuckin' expensive to get to. New York could be more doable. We'll see. New York is amazing, Boston is cheaper still to fly to. Plenty of air bnb's too.
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Post by ratbag on Jun 23, 2017 7:01:34 GMT
Just found this thread. Brilliant!
And Bestie JFDI...
Just Fucking Do It!
If you don't you will drive yourself crazy wondering what if...
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Post by RAZ on Jun 23, 2017 7:30:16 GMT
So. It's crazy to fly to Las Vegas to meet a girl you met for two days, yes? Bear in mind: She is at least a 9.5 and badly wants the perfect 10 status (which as I often say, doesn't exist. WTM aside of course). mate once i moved away from austria and started a new life in barcelona because of a girl i just met 2 months before. we broke up after 6 months but i never had any regrets
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2017 7:40:18 GMT
Confidence is certainly key in regards to attracting women, which is why I've been through various "dry spells" throughout my life. High School was a write off in that regard but it genuinely didn't bother or affect me, I was more interested in chatting about football, playing video games and being the class clown. I gained confidence and maintained it from around the age of 17 to 24, which certainly benefited me with the opposite sex. My university years were still the most enjoyable by a mile. The last few years have again been a write off but I've had more important things to worry about at the same time, going through a few personal problems which led to me developing some pretty crippling anxiety, which didn't just harm my chances of meeting women but I struggled in situations where I had to meet new people in general, male or female. I'm still not 100% myself now but I'm much better. It's fucking hard (all the time ) when you've been out of the game, so to speak, for a while. When I talk about confidence I'm not necessarily referring to being confident in the way I look, I've always been the way of thinking that some women will find me physically attractive, some won't, that's life. I'm talking about confidence as a person, confidence to just let yourself go, relax and be yourself. I spend too much time worrying about doing or saying the wrong thing. Oh and it also doesn't help that nearly everyone I take an interest in or vise versa seems to have some sort of complication attached to it!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2017 7:51:55 GMT
Point one - I am not a 10/10 either by any stretch, but since my early 20's I have been entirely comfortable in 'myself' and women definitely pick up on that as a good thing. Point two - Vegas is fuckin' expensive to get to. New York could be more doable. We'll see. Is it?
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Post by king nothing on Jun 23, 2017 8:11:12 GMT
My biggest confidence booster was getting a job behind a busy bar in the early nineties. Great times.
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Post by Bestie on Jun 23, 2017 8:29:41 GMT
Point one - I am not a 10/10 either by any stretch, but since my early 20's I have been entirely comfortable in 'myself' and women definitely pick up on that as a good thing. Point two - Vegas is fuckin' expensive to get to. New York could be more doable. We'll see. Is it? Hey, good point. Can you sort us out please mate? I'd make it worth your while ...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2017 8:32:21 GMT
Is it? Hey, good point. Can you sort us out please mate? I'd make it worth your while ... will do.
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