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Post by WhatsTheMata on Jul 7, 2018 19:14:40 GMT
Genuinely, football and United. It makes me fucking miserable sometimes, but it is such a huge part of my life. Bar possibly holidays - and even then I make time to keep up with things and catch games if they fall when I'm not doing something else - football is on my mind almost all the time. I check this forum 6 or 7 times a day, as well as regularly looking at my football-heavy Twitter feed and websites like Football 365. It goes beyond United in the sense that I just love watching football full stop, but United are obviously a huge part of that. I should probably mention my fiancée as well.You shouldn't otherwise it's a signal of codependency. Or maybe I am being cold and out of reality. Forgot Twitter on mine  Holidays... I have no holidays this year *sigh* |
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Post by Rustin Cohle on Jul 7, 2018 19:16:38 GMT
Genuinely, football and United. It makes me fucking miserable sometimes, but it is such a huge part of my life. Bar possibly holidays - and even then I make time to keep up with things and catch games if they fall when I'm not doing something else - football is on my mind almost all the time. I check this forum 6 or 7 times a day, as well as regularly looking at my football-heavy Twitter feed and websites like Football 365. It goes beyond United in the sense that I just love watching football full stop, but United are obviously a huge part of that. I should probably mention my fiancée as well.You shouldn't otherwise it's a signal of codependency. Or maybe I am being cold and out of reality. That is maybe a bit cold I think! But each to their own - some people are in very happy relationships without being codependent etc., or love each other very much but could also be happy without one another if need be. Different strokes for different folks, and no one relationship model is better than another. I mean, I could live without her, and I could live without football and basically anything bar food/water/shelter/air as well. But my life would be significantly worse in both cases. I'd be absolutely gutted if she left or passed away or whatever. |
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Post by WhatsTheMata on Jul 7, 2018 19:20:23 GMT
You shouldn't otherwise it's a signal of codependency. Or maybe I am being cold and out of reality. <iframe width="27.25999999999999" height="6.039999999999992" style="position: absolute; width: 27.25999999999999px; height: 6.039999999999992px; z-index: -9999; border-style: none;left: 15px; top: -5px;" id="MoatPxIOPT0_24215748" scrolling="no"></iframe> <iframe width="27.25999999999999" height="6.039999999999992" style="position: absolute; width: 27.26px; height: 6.04px; z-index: -9999; border-style: none; left: 1299px; top: -5px;" id="MoatPxIOPT0_45898022" scrolling="no"></iframe> <iframe width="27.25999999999999" height="6.039999999999992" style="position: absolute; width: 27.26px; height: 6.04px; z-index: -9999; border-style: none; left: 15px; top: 239px;" id="MoatPxIOPT0_26426878" scrolling="no"></iframe> <iframe width="27.25999999999999" height="6.039999999999992" style="position: absolute; width: 27.26px; height: 6.04px; z-index: -9999; border-style: none; left: 1299px; top: 239px;" id="MoatPxIOPT0_10236575" scrolling="no"></iframe> That is a bit cold I think! I mean, I could live without her, and I could live without football and basically anything bar food/water/shelter/air as well. But my life would be significantly worse in both cases. Sorry, I wasn't the most fluffy person before but after my break up I became slightly less sentimental on this area (for now)  |
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Post by Rustin Cohle on Jul 7, 2018 19:22:17 GMT
That is a bit cold I think! I mean, I could live without her, and I could live without football and basically anything bar food/water/shelter/air as well. But my life would be significantly worse in both cases. Sorry, I wasn't the most fluffy person before but after my break up I became slightly less sentimental on this area (for now) Don't be sorry! I edited my post to make my thoughts a bit clearer - different types of relationship work for different people. I'm quite independent as I was an only child, but I'm much happier with her. I'm sure the one is out there for you. And if not I'm sure Bestie will take you  Edit: It's almost a shame you don't like guys - I know many that would kill for a girl as into football as you are! My ex was a big football fan (sadly Arsenal), but in retrospect it blinded me to the fact we didn't have that much else in common, bar our backgrounds. My fiancée tolerates football rather than likes it, and perhaps has a passing interest, but we connect on a much deeper level in almost every other way. |
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Post by WhatsTheMata on Jul 8, 2018 15:41:54 GMT
Sorry, I wasn't the most fluffy person before but after my break up I became slightly less sentimental on this area (for now) Don't be sorry! I edited my post to make my thoughts a bit clearer - different types of relationship work for different people. I'm quite independent as I was an only child, but I'm much happier with her. I'm sure the one is out there for you. And if not I'm sure Bestie will take you Edit: It's almost a shame you don't like guys - I know many that would kill for a girl as into football as you are! My ex was a big football fan (sadly Arsenal), but in retrospect it blinded me to the fact we didn't have that much else in common, bar our backgrounds. My fiancée tolerates football rather than likes it, and perhaps has a passing interest, but we connect on a much deeper level in almost every other way. I might actually be bisexual  I decided to contact more other sides of me. Hey, raised as an only child here too! I'm actually not looking for anyone. I have too many different plans, ambitions and I don't think someone would fit into my life rn. Bestie gets it though that's why he's my husband |
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"United’s flag is deepest red, it shrouded all our Munich dead. Before their limbs grew stiff and cold, their heart’s blood dyed it’s ev’ry fold. Then raise United’s banner high, beneath it’s shade we’ll live and die. So keep the faith and never fear." 
I decided to contact more other sides of me.