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Post by Ole's Red Whiteknight03 Army on Sept 8, 2019 18:28:56 GMT
you know, people tend to use the phrase "it can only get better mate", when you're struggling and life hits you. but that phrase is complete bullshit and has no truth to it. apart from everything else that fucked me up completely in the last year, to a point where i cant say anymore that i enjoy life, shit just doesnt stop. i'm in hospital, almost died last night of a pulmonary embolism or lung embolism. seriously...fuck absolutely everything. Unfortunately you’re bang on. Things can always get worse, and even though this will sound pithy, I am truly sorry you’re going through this. Having said that, it can always get better and I’m living proof of that. I’m clearly not going through what you are but I’m doing a million times better now than I was this time last year. For me, meds defo have helped but it’s more than that. Therapy, either professional or self administered helps. Meditation or prayer or whatever you want to call it helps. A belief in some sort of higher power helped me bc I don’t have to carry everything myself. It helped me to be able to let the weight of some things go and concentrate on a few small things I felt capable of controlling and letting the other things fall on the higher power. As I started to slowly heal, I could take on more and more. It was a slow process and certainly not linear but over time, I’m getting there. Understanding what was me and what was depression helped me let go of the depression stuff and realize I didn’t have to bear the weight of the guilt and anxiety of not being myself. Communicating this to a loved one or someone, or out loud to myself helped me figure it out. Everyone is different and has a different cross to bear but hopefully some of that helps. Stick in there dude, you WILL find the strength to get through this. And as pithy as this sounds, even the longest night is followed by a morning. |
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Post by king nothing on Sept 8, 2019 18:40:20 GMT
you know, people tend to use the phrase "it can only get better mate", when you're struggling and life hits you. but that phrase is complete bullshit and has no truth to it. apart from everything else that fucked me up completely in the last year, to a point where i cant say anymore that i enjoy life, shit just doesnt stop. i'm in hospital, almost died last night of a pulmonary embolism or lung embolism. seriously...fuck absolutely everything. Holy shit mate. What caused the embolism? Sorry, I'm medically ignorant. Hopefully you're feeling a little better today man. I can't begin to understand what you are going through, but I'm sure I speak for us all on here when I say we are rooting for you mate. Small steps brother, just a little bit of the picture at a time. |
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Post by RAZ on Sept 13, 2019 11:53:53 GMT
cheers lads. got released from the hospital. turned out i had several lung embolisms on both sides and they also caused a small infarct. lucky to be alive apparently.
3 weeks ago i went to visit my best mate, his wife and their daughter back in austria. they were so happy as she was pregnant with their second child. and me and him were joking around and searching for a name in case it will be a boy this time. received a message yesterday that the unborn died in the belly...
i honestly cant wait for this year to end. i apologize for spamming the forum lately with shit like that. but somehow it helps slightly to type it off my chest, the last 10-11 months have been hell on earth.
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Post by Carbon on Sept 16, 2019 7:25:08 GMT
cheers lads. got released from the hospital. turned out i had several lung embolisms on both sides and they also caused a small infarct. lucky to be alive apparently. 3 weeks ago i went to visit my best mate, his wife and their daughter back in austria. they were so happy as she was pregnant with their second child. and me and him were joking around and searching for a name in case it will be a boy this time. received a message yesterday that the unborn died in the belly... i honestly cant wait for this year to end. i apologize for spamming the forum lately with shit like that. but somehow it helps slightly to type it off my chest, the last 10-11 months have been hell on earth.
Mate, Spam all you like. Even being able to write stuff down helps and we're here to listen.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 17, 2019 16:08:46 GMT
cheers lads. got released from the hospital. turned out i had several lung embolisms on both sides and they also caused a small infarct. lucky to be alive apparently. 3 weeks ago i went to visit my best mate, his wife and their daughter back in austria. they were so happy as she was pregnant with their second child. and me and him were joking around and searching for a name in case it will be a boy this time. received a message yesterday that the unborn died in the belly... i honestly cant wait for this year to end. i apologize for spamming the forum lately with shit like that. but somehow it helps slightly to type it off my chest, the last 10-11 months have been hell on earth.
Mate, Spam all you like. Even being able to write stuff down helps and we're here to listen.
Read  but agreed. If you feel it helps Raz then carry on mate. Certainly doesn't bother anybody on here I'm sure and if anyone can pass on their wisdom I'm sure they'll be happy to help. Sorry to hear about your recent problems, fingers crossed you get through it mate. |
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Post by king nothing on Nov 21, 2019 15:17:11 GMT
Gutted. Got knocked back by this lass I wanted to take out. Properly knocked the stuffing out of me. Really thought i had a shot. Fuck you dating scene!
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Post by king nothing on Nov 21, 2019 15:20:18 GMT
Looks like it's a red wine Thursday.
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Post by Carbon on Nov 21, 2019 15:24:40 GMT
Gutted. Got knocked back by this lass I wanted to take out. Properly knocked the stuffing out of me. Really thought i had a shot. Fuck you dating scene!
Told you to be miserable like me  |
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Post by king nothing on Nov 21, 2019 17:28:05 GMT
Gutted. Got knocked back by this lass I wanted to take out. Properly knocked the stuffing out of me. Really thought i had a shot. Fuck you dating scene! Told you to be miserable like me Believe me, I'm fucking miserable now! I'm surprised at how bummed out I am. |
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Post by king nothing on Nov 21, 2019 17:29:22 GMT
Starting again when you are 47 is fucking tough. I'm really beginning to think fuck it,Just stay single.
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Post by ScholesEvilTwin on Nov 21, 2019 17:31:56 GMT
Gutted. Got knocked back by this lass I wanted to take out. Properly knocked the stuffing out of me. Really thought i had a shot. Fuck you dating scene! Told you to be miserable like me Don't United cause enough misery as it is? |
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Post by king nothing on Nov 21, 2019 19:46:27 GMT
Rough with the smooth baby. We shall return. Back stronger...
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Post by Carbon on Nov 21, 2019 22:27:38 GMT
Told you to be miserable like me Believe me, I'm fucking miserable now! I'm surprised at how bummed out I am.
You'll be fine. Mark it down as a learning experience and move on.
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Post by king nothing on Nov 22, 2019 17:50:48 GMT
Life can be fucking weird. The woman at work turned me down, and I've been on PoF for months with nothing. Yesterday, I got talking to a woman on there, boom we are going on a date to the Xmas markets next week!!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2019 20:59:23 GMT
Life can be fucking weird. The woman at work turned me down, and I've been on PoF for months with nothing. Yesterday, I got talking to a woman on there, boom we are going on a date to the Xmas markets next week!! One door closes 😉 |
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