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Post by ScholesEvilTwin on Jun 10, 2012 13:20:46 GMT
I like besties idea of a RoM night out - Tommy would have dozens of wingmen that night!
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 13:21:55 GMT
Ha! I'm having one bite every half an hour! Its the only way I can hack it!
Don't make out that I'm some sort of woman expert! The sex I've had over the past week is the first sex I've had with someone else other than my ex since I've been single and that was in January when we split. I lack the confidence to randomly come up to women. I've only usually pulled when they have approached me first so I don't pull very often on nights out. In fact, since January, I've pulled 2 women and been out on the piss loads. One of those was someone I've slept with before. Not exactly a good ratio.
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Post by tommyred on Jun 10, 2012 13:25:37 GMT
I'm not saying you're an expert but you def seem better than me at this online dating thing. Maybe I come across too boring? I've never been the sort of guy who can say YOU'RE DAMN FINE or stuff like that. Plus I just assumed they'd disregard those sort of messages if they are girls looking for a relationship rather than a random fuck.
Oh well, I'll soldier on. At least I know it's worked for some people so if I message enough girls one might give me a shot.
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Post by Bestie on Jun 10, 2012 13:27:15 GMT
Sorry, you said, "Its rare that ill get in touch with someone first." and I didn't understand how that worked! This is all very intriguing. Ah, sorry Bestie. I meant that I usually let women get in touch with me first. Put it this way, I joined plenty of fish 2 weeks ago and I've only sent like, 3 messages first, but I've received loads. One of those was too this hot milf! I love smashing older women! Its awesome! Do you have a missus Bestie lad? If not, just give it a go, just to feed your curiousity. I'm like you. Never really saw myself going down that route, but it does work, even if you just get sex a couple of times. Ahh right, I get you now. No I do not have a missus. No real yearning to go out and find one either in all honesty. Bit of a loner so enjoy my independence far, far too much to put up with one bird for too long. Come close a couple of times but didn't work because I couldn't/wouldn't give them the time they wanted. I'm not a dick to women or anything, I just don't see the point of going all-in until it's with someone worth risking your whole stack on so I try to keep my distance until I know I'm going to commit properly. This casual sex aspect sounds interesting though, right up my street. Once you've slept with someone and gotten the sex bit out of the way, sometimes you realise that actually you like one particular female for more than what she can offer you in bed. |
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Post by Bestie on Jun 10, 2012 13:29:11 GMT
One girl who ignored me was a season ticket holder of 13 years. That hurt. Where's her seat? I might know her. |
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Post by tommyred on Jun 10, 2012 13:30:55 GMT
Don't know.
But I have a season ticket now. Finally!
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 13:31:16 GMT
I'm not saying you're an expert but you def seem better than me at this online dating thing. Maybe I come across too boring? I've never been the sort of guy who can say YOU'RE DAMN FINE or stuff like that. Plus I just assumed they'd disregard those sort of messages if they are girls looking for a relationship rather than a random fuck. Oh well, I'll soldier on. At least I know it's worked for some people so if I message enough girls one might give me a shot. Well, I say more than just 'you're damn fine'. Some women like it, some don't. Shows a cheeky side and makes out that you're not as boring as a piece of wood. I do like your attitude towards it though I must admit. Even though a change in tactic might work, you should never change who you are. Be with someone who likes you for you. That's where my last relationship went wrong. She kept trying to change who I am. |
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Post by tommyred on Jun 10, 2012 13:32:28 GMT
A lot of people praise my attitude towards women.
The problem is they are all male.
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 13:34:31 GMT
Ah, sorry Bestie. I meant that I usually let women get in touch with me first. Put it this way, I joined plenty of fish 2 weeks ago and I've only sent like, 3 messages first, but I've received loads. One of those was too this hot milf! I love smashing older women! Its awesome! Do you have a missus Bestie lad? If not, just give it a go, just to feed your curiousity. I'm like you. Never really saw myself going down that route, but it does work, even if you just get sex a couple of times. Ahh right, I get you now. No I do not have a missus. No real yearning to go out and find one either in all honesty. Bit of a loner so enjoy my independence far, far too much to put up with one bird for too long. Come close a couple of times but didn't work because I couldn't/wouldn't give them the time they wanted. I'm not a dick to women or anything, I just don't see the point of going all-in until it's with someone worth risking your whole stack on so I try to keep my distance until I know I'm going to commit properly. This casual sex aspect sounds interesting though, right up my street. Once you've slept with someone and gotten the sex bit out of the way, sometimes you realise that actually you like one particular female for more than what she can offer you in bed. Or you just get a fuck buddy out of it!! You sound like me again there. I don't like to open up to women. Something else that went wrong in my last relationship. She thought I was a closed book. I'm a loner as well, but it is nice to have someone there for you. They're all crazy, no matter what way you look at it! |
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Post by WillieRedNut on Jun 10, 2012 13:36:39 GMT
Chris...............the Tony Soprano of the RoM!  |
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Post by tommyred on Jun 10, 2012 13:36:44 GMT
Any tips on the profile mate? I reckon mine sounds a bit boring.
Because a lot of girls have viewed me and not said anything.
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 13:51:51 GMT
Chris...............the Tony Soprano of the RoM! That's why I'm a mod. I'm a leader  Tommy, on POF, my headline is 'Better than your ex, guaranteed!'. Bang! Got a conversation starter before I've even said anything about myself. Plenty of women have said stuff to me like 'its not hard to be better than my ex'. My profile goes on about me wanting to settle down, how we don't really have to have things in common since opposites attract and I also pretty much say that if you don't feel attractive, don't get in touch! My shallow side coming out I'm afraid. Then I just say my likes. Ill inbox u what my profile says. |
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Post by Tatty on Jun 10, 2012 13:53:44 GMT
My brothers POF headline is 'Stone Cold Heart Looking For A Stunner'.
Fucking genius!
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 13:57:34 GMT
Yeah that's quality Tatty!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2012 14:09:46 GMT
the best way to email Women on dating sites is just trial and error ....
p.s when you get the right combo, let me know ;D
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