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Post by jimbonda on Jun 16, 2012 10:50:18 GMT
i should add the people saying that stuff to me is other girls, wouldn't accept a lad saying it.
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Post by Chris on Jul 9, 2012 10:21:24 GMT
How you getting on Tommy?
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Post by tommyred on Jul 9, 2012 21:12:42 GMT
Nothing to report to be honest mate. Not really been bothering with it for a few weeks. Been busy working and stuff.
And I was a bit disheartened by the lack of results on POF. I imagine it's easier to get success speaking to girls face to face, but I don't really have any opportunities to do that at the minute.
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Post by tommyred on Aug 18, 2012 13:20:21 GMT
I tried Match.com (200 quid for 6 months!) and it didn't work at all for a while but in the last week I've got 2 replies from good looking girls. One seemed really cool and typed me a good message, I replied normally asking questions and she never got back to me, which was disappointing.
The second one messaged me saying she is on holiday in Spain at the moment but reply properly when she's back. That was last Sunday. So my question is, how long would you leave it before messaging her again? Does it sound like she was serious or just letting me down gently and hoping I'd forget about it? She's been online a lot in the last couple of days and as its been almost a week maybe I should send her another. She's pretty and seems nice so I don't want to miss a potential opportunity.
Thoughts?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2012 13:54:11 GMT
I tried Match.com (200 quid for 6 months!) and it didn't work at all for a while but in the last week I've got 2 replies from good looking girls. One seemed really cool and typed me a good message, I replied normally asking questions and she never got back to me, which was disappointing. The second one messaged me saying she is on holiday in Spain at the moment but reply properly when she's back. That was last Sunday. So my question is, how long would you leave it before messaging her again? Does it sound like she was serious or just letting me down gently and hoping I'd forget about it? She's been online a lot in the last couple of days and as its been almost a week maybe I should send her another. She's pretty and seems nice so I don't want to miss a potential opportunity. Thoughts? Ill be honest im by far an expert on these things but what id do is send her a nice message for her to come back to mate (if you know when that is) saying u hope she had a nice time, was looking forward to hearing back from you etc etc, shell see that your keen and that your showing interest. Plus if shes gone away for a bit of time she might think you'll forget and that its put you off so if she sees a message then she might think oh he did remember. This will show that you are interested and get things going. It depends how it was said, if you send a msg and all you got back was talk to me when im home then its not sounding great but if you've spoken a fair bit en just give it a whirl and if she doesn't reply then you know. I wouldn't think the worst though otherwise you'll put yourself off it let alone other people doing it. Hope it works for ya anyway mate. |
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Post by tommyred on Aug 18, 2012 15:51:31 GMT
Thanks Paul. I tried messaging her a couple of hours ago after you said this. She's been online the whole time and hasn't replied. Not hopeful about this one.
Oh well.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2012 16:07:27 GMT
Thanks Paul. I tried messaging her a couple of hours ago after you said this. She's been online the whole time and hasn't replied. Not hopeful about this one. Oh well. Is shit when that happens mate, if their gonna come across as a cunt then best off looking elsewhere mate. Don't get disheartened by it though, some1 out there for every1 although Ive even bought a sat nav to find mine and still no luck lol. You'll get there bud, just gotta play the waiting game sometimes. |
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