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Post by tommyred on Jun 10, 2012 20:17:07 GMT
I just kind of left it because I ran out of things to say and she sent a message which, while still friendly, didn't really give me anything to reply to.
At least I know some reply now...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2012 20:55:47 GMT
I just kind of left it because I ran out of things to say and she sent a message which, while still friendly, didn't really give me anything to reply to. At least I know some reply now... Should ask her if she wants to come visit your perch  |
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Post by Bestie on Jun 10, 2012 20:58:45 GMT
HA! Excellent Paul.
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Post by WillieRedNut on Jun 10, 2012 21:28:47 GMT
Smash her back door in Tommy, then fuck her off! Minted!  Take that you YSB! |
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Post by Chris on Jun 10, 2012 21:39:01 GMT
I'm officially the love doctor
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2012 21:40:35 GMT
Smash her back door in Tommy, then fuck her off! Minted! Take that you YSB! If you do Tommy remember, NEVER let her go on top. Theyve not been above us for years, now is not the time to start. |
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Post by WillieRedNut on Jun 10, 2012 21:42:47 GMT
Might be Alex Gerrard?  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2012 21:44:43 GMT
Might be Alex Gerrard? You can phone Gerrard then and chant down the phone "the babys not yours" |
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Post by jimbonda on Jun 11, 2012 12:43:15 GMT
purely based on what the internet is like i'd not be disheartened by anything negative mate. you have no idea what's going on on the other end of things. someone may look at your profile and like what they see but be too shy/nervous to send a message. you could be messaging a chick who has hundreds of messages in their inbox and yours just gets lost in the shuffle. take nothing personally
on the other hand everything you do get from this is a bonus and you'll build confidence - WIN
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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2012 5:32:39 GMT
Just wondering, does the site you're on tell you when the other person was last on line? If not, you could be sending messages to chicks who haven't been on there for months, and aren't planning on going back on. Hence they won't message back cos they won't know they have any message themselves. I would just keep plugging away. It can be a confidence killer, but remember that birds are always gonna get a lot more attention than blokes, so you might get one message sent to you out of the blue in a month, birds probably get a couple a day. Plus blokes are a lot more likely to just say "Wahheyy" and try to arrange a meet up, birds have to be a lot more careful about these sorts of things. As I say it's hard not to get hard on yourself if messages are going out and nothing comes back, but as old Del Boy said, He Who Dares. Just keep trying, keep messages simple, just write something regular about yourself and what it is your looking for, and replies will come. You will always send a lot more messages out than replies you get back, that's just human life, birds are a lot more picky than blokes (in general, some are slags though, and they're great! But not exactly long term prospects). Just keep us updated with whats happening, we can all have a celebratory beer around the world when it happens! |
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Post by Jayrannasaurus on Jun 12, 2012 5:46:03 GMT
tommy, if you want to make a long term commitment with regard to your approach to women there's really only one thing I can tell you that'll really make a difference. Read a book called The Game: Undercover in the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists by Neil Strauss and, if that puts you on the right track and you like some of the feedback you get - there's loads more from that direction of literature. The guy who wrote the book, by his own accounts, was alot like what some of us might feel like at some stage in our life, some pretty awesome stuff in here. Some of the info is actually so incredibly obvious but we just don't see it.  Luckily I read it when I was 17, as a way of making nights out even more fun by actually hooking up with women without just standing around staring for the entire evening, and it pretty much sorted me out. It's a good place to get a bulk of advice. I can almost promise you this will change your life in some way, tommo, seriously have a look at this. I'm not shitting you mate, some of the shit in here got a mate of mine laid on the regular in the UK and he took alot of this stuff on board and put it into practice. Ross Jeffries also has some material available that's also spot on. Essentially, women are a lot more predictable than we think. |
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Post by jimbonda on Jun 12, 2012 10:04:27 GMT
if that sort of thing works for you then it's cool. not for me, i don't play games, if a girl pulls away from me for whatever reason then i'm not chasing her up. i'll meet halfway and that's as much as i' willing to do. i have had a couple of long term relationships and generally don't go on dates or have many short term flings or owt like that.
however i know i have missed out on a few bunk-ups because of my attitude..
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Post by Jayrannasaurus on Jun 12, 2012 10:24:19 GMT
I'm with you there jim, I'm all for making and discovering something more meaningful, but many of my mates aren't like that and they'll go for a piece of meat if it's there for the taking.
It's a superior attitude, but one which leaves a lot of men thinking they deserve to be courted whilst evolution has inevitably favored the fittest and, these days, socially alpha-male. It's more about having the confidence to attract the attention of a specific woman in such a way that she has no choice but to notice your qualities and what sets you apart from the crowd.
The above post, mainly alot of the info it supplies, helps a great deal in getting into a situation where you're talking and actually conversing with a woman that, in many cases, you probably wouldn't have known how to approach. It gives you the right mindset to prepare for what happens and think on your feet, y'know? Also, it's genuinely a very good read, some hilarious stuff in there as well as lessons for the reader.
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Post by jimbonda on Jun 12, 2012 11:15:03 GMT
don't get me wrong it's not that i'm adverse to getting laid if i like the girl but i'm not up for having a lot of hard work on my hands to win her over, if she's not willing to meet half way then i'll leave it.
also i'm not up for trying it on with lots of girls over the course of a night like this one dude i read about who would move from one girl to the next until he scored. richard la ruina [ruin-her?] is the author, got about half way through and got bored.
i read a lot so i'd give the book you posted up a go if it's good for confidence because a boost is always good in that department
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Post by Jayrannasaurus on Jun 12, 2012 11:46:51 GMT
The last sentence pretty much sums the book up jim, you'll learn alot from the book as it's basically just a guy (a pretty average guy, like you and I) describing what happened to himself. It's a pretty funny story too at times!
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