The Football League Thread Apr 21, 2016 18:32:15 GMT via mobile
Post by Bestie on Apr 21, 2016 18:32:15 GMT
Why does it?
All I see is a woman who truly loves him and is willing to forgive him for cheating on her, (some women do actually give their cheating man a second chance. And visa versa for that matter). If it wasn't for the police turning up with the allegations brought against him, she would've been none the wiser. Now if she was to find out about his shenanigans through the grape vine for example, he would've lied through his teeth. Then if she found out categorically that he lied aswell as cheated, then she would've darted like a greyhound out of the traps and fucked him off.
Evans was forced to admit it to her because he found himself in the grips of the law. Whether he's admitted to other instances of cheating I wouldn't know. She's shown she can forgive him for straying, but I doubt she would've done the same if she found he was a liar aswell.
All she's done is shown her loyalty to him, and must believe he's told the truth that he committed no rape. I'm sure she isn't sticking by him for the money he earned as a footballer alone, as that's mostly been swallowed up in lawyer and legal fees.
I bet he won't be going behind her back again. If he does, then he deserves to lose her. Because I doubt she'd be stupid enough to forgive him again.
Now what's wrong with that?
Seriously? It wouldn't have been okay for her to find out 'through the grapevine' but once he got arrested for rape that was okay. Suddenly Ched Evans isn't a liar. Still a cheat, but not a liar. Somehow.
Cheating is fucking lying. Being forced to admit to cheating isn't an excuse or anything like it. That's worse than if he had admitted it freely FFS.